He Says: I Don’t Want to Spend All My Free Time With This Couple Marriage Matters Mar 1, 2023 She says: It’s not like we have a ton of other friends. Read More
He Says: We Love Each Other but Are So Different Marriage Matters Jan 1, 2023 The notion that “opposites attract” is a paradox. Read More
He and She Say: We’re Dreading Going Home to Either of Our Families for the Holidays Marriage Matters Dec 1, 2022 Rejoice that you feel this discomfort; it’s a sign your marriage is healthy. Read More
He Says: Now That We Can Gather Again as an Extended Family, I Want to Invite the Big Group for Thanksgiving. Marriage Matters Nov 1, 2022 This holiday season is a great opportunity to establish a new normal for your holiday traditions. Read More
He says: I lost my job and have not been able to find another that pays me what I think I’m worth Marriage Matters Oct 1, 2022 Regardless of its pay, what kind of work would most interest you most and draw upon your talents? Read More
Compromising, Accommodating, Understanding, Appreciating Marriage Matters Oct 1, 2022 During the years of my work with couples, I met many that were complaining about growing distant. Read More
She says: He wants to invest in cryptocurrency, but I feel it’s too risky Marriage Matters Sep 1, 2022 Your goal is to get on the right page. Read More
She says: I thought he would stop playing video games after we got married Marriage Matters Jul 1, 2022 It’s not uncommon for engaged people to hope that “things will be different once we get married.” Read More
He Says: I Don’t Want Her Brother to Babysit Marriage Matters Jun 1, 2022 Most people understand that language which might be OK in one setting may not be in another. Read More
She Says: I Want to Travel Now That We’re Retired Marriage Matters May 1, 2022 Entering into retirement can be just as fun – and just as stressful – as entering into marriage. Read More
She Says: I Don’t Think We Have to Share All of Our Financial Assets Marriage Matters Apr 1, 2022 With modern couples, both are used to earning and managing their own money. Read More
What’s Sacramental About Marriage? Marriage Matters Apr 1, 2022 Unlike every other sacrament, matrimony originates in nature rather than in a distinct creative act of Christ. Read More
She Says: Sometimes I Snap at Him Marriage Matters Mar 1, 2022 Reflex snapping, like any form of spontaneous, unwanted behavior, is not the real problem. Read More
The Bride Without Shoes Marriage Matters Feb 1, 2022 It was the day after our wedding. I remember driving on Interstate 70 East, away from Kansas City. Read More
She Says: I Need My “Alone Time” Marriage Matters Jan 1, 2022 Quality alone time is good for our mental and spiritual health, and helps us to be better companions. Read More
She Says: Our Marriage Takes a Back Seat to Hanging Out With the Guys Marriage Matters Dec 1, 2021 He says he wants to keep his friends as well as his wife. Read More
He Says: She Is Always Bragging About Her Family History Marriage Matters Nov 1, 2021 The desire to hear and tell family stories arises from our deepest needs to know who we are. Read More
She Says: I’m Always the One to Give in Marriage Matters Oct 1, 2021 He says: It’s her choice; she hates conflict Read More
He Says: We Hardly Ever See Each Other Marriage Matters Sep 1, 2021 She says: My job is very demanding. Read More
HE SAYS: Let’s do online school again Marriage Matters Jul 1, 2021 Our kids were home this entire school year with online schooling, and I think we should continue. Read More
SHE SAYS: I’m concerned about his temper Marriage Matters Jun 1, 2021 There is hope for people with anger management problems. Read More
SHE SAYS: I want to go back to school for a master’s degree Marriage Matters May 1, 2021 Make sure you and your spouse are thinking about the big picture. Read More